Help :( Not sure what to do???

Very hard situation, I wish you well. All I can say is that it is hard to find the balance between friend and parent. When I was his age I was rebelling, doing drugs etc because my parents wouldn't even let me go to a party. I snuck out, or just plain ran away so they didn't know where I was. Lucky for me I didn't get into any serious trouble, and I grew out of it. I don't think there would have been much anyone could do for me at the time, but I know I felt alone and had no one to talk to becaue my parents were all parent and no friend if you get what I mean. Has his father tried talking to him? Maybe a family friend that is a little closer to his age even? If you could get him there, I would actually recommend a kinesiologist. Did wonders for me when I found it, but you have to be ready to face some demons, and anyone showing that behaviour sure has them. On the positive side, I am now 25, have 2 beautiful kids, and am in a stable happy relationship and home, so don't give up on him, it may just be a stage, or he doesn't know how to deal with his emotions, and being a male it's hard to tell anyone that you even have them I would think. Good luck