Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Abusive Husband Gets Married Days After Our Divorce?

I just got out an 11 year abusive and unfaithful marriage from my manipulative ex husband. He put me through hell for 11 years treating me as his slave and everlast bag physically and emotionally. Days after I finilized my divorce, (which he never showed up in court for), he got remarried after repeatedly telling me he was never seeing anyone else. Does anyone think he will continue this vicious cycle with her or will he bring himself in the rest of our reality? I know now he was having an affair with her the last 2 years of our marriage and covering it up by saying he was never home because he was active duty military and it wasn't my business. It was obvious she knew he was married, but he has the natrotious habit of making people believe what he says. He had ruined my reputation by telling people all kinds of things about me that were evil, however, I never knew about this until I would go in public and learned I was being talked about. I'm sure he told this new wife of his how I was the reason we got divorced among other things charming her into falling in love with him. He stayed unfaithful to me during the entirety of our marriage with the ones I DID catch him with. I found out about his new marriage by web surfing. He and I have 2 children together he doesn't care anything about. I've looked through his new wedding album he posted online for the public to see and they all look so happy. His family says they're proud of him and don't question our divorce. His new wife never questioned me, nor did she make herself known to me. It's obvious she took his word for everything he told her. He abandoned us in December without a word. The couple of times he actually stopped by to see his kids, he was sporting a new look...expensive new suit, expensive shoes and said he was going to church. I could never drag him to church with me to save my life, in fact, I'm a preachers kid and he used guilt towards me to stop going to church. When we were dating and he disappeared then reappeared again, the first thing he could do is throw in my face that he had a new girlfriend and how happy he was. I left it at that, moved on with my life and a year later he popped up on my doorstep asking to get married...out of nowhere. I loved him so I said yes, and days after we got married he was unfaithful. Anytime I would question him on his whereabouts, he used the military job to cover up where he was and his chain of command has always helped cover up his where abouts as well. This went on for 11 years as I stayed faithful, raised his 2 kids alone, kept up the house and suffered being alone during his deployments. I feel as if I put aside my life and soul for nothing. Will he do the same thing to her? They're obviously still in the honeymoon stages.

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